Fortunately, there’s nada to say. Your whole lifespan you have been doing things to diminish tension. You’ve perpetually attempted to accomodate others in your plans . No one is exempt: your friends, your colleagues, and especially the females you like. When things get jittery or difficult, you’re the goofball making everyone laugh and feel comfortable.
(Not so) surprisingly, when females refuse you, you’re more stressed about their comfort level than your own. What a fine guy! This is painful because doing things to facilitate females feel more easy with the sexual tension will be viewed by her as supplication. A girl is never feel attraction to this man that copes with LESS sexual tension than she can.
So stop speaking, laughing, reacting, moving around nervously, being nice in spite of being rejected, and making supplicating facial expressions
In the end, it invariably appears to come down to who succeeds in the little tensity battles:
Most men will utilize a outgoing ground to speak to her or create a justification to start the conversation. This may help you and her in feeling comfortable, but it is a formula for disaster.
Right away from the beginning men are scared of silences. In fact, immediately following where you introduce yourself, it’s best to pause briefly and allow her a chance to chip in. Instead, what most men usually do is just presume it’s their job to blab and do so the entire time. It seems as they are trying to measure up themselves instead of the other way around.
It’s also common for men to break sexual tension by getting supplicating facial faces when listening. Just stay relatively silent and use more of a empty stare when listening.
Resistance is great! But if you respond to the resistance verbally (i.e. attempting to diffuse the ineptitude by making a joke) you will destroy that tension. If you don’t respond to her resistance it never turns real. It’s not formal. Being unreactive and keeping composed lets you be very relentless without coming across needy.
As such, trials are best managed this way: Hold enticing eye contact, smile and turn your head away slowly. If her test is due to a valid sexual ease issue, then your answer can be carried in a sexual but serious tone: “We’re both adults. We’ll do whatever we are comfortable with.”
When you ask females to exchange numbers, meet or come home with you, just lead her and then shut up. When girls start procrastinating or making excuses guys always seem to bail them out by saying something. They collapse under the pressure.
Alternatively don’t say anything and go somewhat closer to her. Let the awkward moment hover. Let her feel sorry for being rude with you. If you can just shut up long enough, women will often come around on their own and agree to everything you’re asking for. A good formula is to always prefer the selection that produces the most tension.
Just by showing up, without doing anything, there’s already sexual stress between you and girls. It is natural and automatic.
That means there is actually nothing “special” you need to do or say and almost all women are already by nature attracted to you
Remember that always, and don’t fall for the lure to break rapport with a {girl.
For more information on this stuff, check out Kiran Kindle’s Review of:
60 Years of Challenge - The Complete Game Revision System
Additional Resources:
Why Nice Guys Like You Finish Last
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